tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post6808667721624562170..comments2024-03-28T12:14:03.276-04:00Comments on Lynn White, Focus Sessions: Is Chivalry DeadPsychic Focus, Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01770956938256710973noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-10771632571990106702018-04-27T08:25:40.704-04:002018-04-27T08:25:40.704-04:00Just a side note.. We've got what we've be...Just a side note.. We've got what we've begun to call,"The Filipino Mafia" here. They are the kindest, funniest, most protective and sincere group of people around here anymore since the tech boom... But get on their bad side and consider your life doomed, lol. Do wrong to one, and all will come to battle against the wrong doer for the one wronged! It's kind of cool, actually.. As long as you stay on their good side ;)<br /><br />We've also coined several of our friends as the Gay Mafia as well. Of course, when I say "mafia," I only mean they are one giant family with seemingly secret powers over acting right to their group!Ameliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15947169762658733872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-20591043004088840512018-04-27T08:11:45.048-04:002018-04-27T08:11:45.048-04:00<3<3<3<3Ameliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15947169762658733872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-37367359601349942692018-04-26T06:21:48.917-04:002018-04-26T06:21:48.917-04:00Thank you for the comments. I resonate with a lot...Thank you for the comments. I resonate with a lot of this. I too am concerned for what these agendas are doing to our society, and the obfuscation of the divine masculine and divine feminine. Lynn White, Focus Sessionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01426009557676118790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-29801387636104543922018-04-25T22:49:55.894-04:002018-04-25T22:49:55.894-04:00NYC is bad tooNYC is bad tooTruth & lighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00626268867173556981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-35236002681665653752018-04-25T17:15:51.858-04:002018-04-25T17:15:51.858-04:00Here's another strange phenomena. I have a fr...Here's another strange phenomena. I have a friend that left his wife because she stopped sleeping with him. He consistently dates women 1/2 his age and loves bragging about it to me. He is as surprised as everyone else. He asked them why they are dating him, and he says the answers are really consistent. He doesn't live with his parents, has a job and pays for everything, is respectful and treats them well, and baths (LOL). The last one cracks me up. So, at least some young women really are just looking for the basics. California is ground zero for the destruction of everything good and wholesome in the world. <br />Darrylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18313923346219548934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-2171231804286274622018-04-25T11:29:02.485-04:002018-04-25T11:29:02.485-04:00Interesting topic.
Well in todays society (global...Interesting topic.<br /><br />Well in todays society (globally) if you are male you always have the shortest straw.<br />I can relate to that. And as lynn has done many readings it's the programming. And I really think todays culture is totally lunatic. Why as a male do I have to put up with this being put in a feminin "learning" environment. Men are learning different than women. It is really ridiculous that nowadays the young children are being punished for being the male sex in your very own schools. Like it is not enough that you are being instituionalized. I've been following the mgtow movement for a few years and look at todays japan dating culture.<br />Men are not perfect but women can also be materialistic, manipulative.<br />What the hell you think you are doing when you accuse a total innocent man of being a molester or a rapist. You also think it's funny that we are getting dumber each generation? learn what to think not how to think.<br />I'm not here to satisfy other peoples needs and or feelings.EA RWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17923003014571398751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-75538688345948346372018-04-25T09:42:48.941-04:002018-04-25T09:42:48.941-04:00Maybe they haven't lost their self-respect, ma...Maybe they haven't lost their self-respect, maybe it's more an ego tantrum. Women are no longer dependent on men financially, they can walk right out the door if they're not being treated right & men's undeveloped egos can't handle that. Which is why there may be a trend of taking poor foreign wives. They have more control. Men don't seem to introspect or work on self healing as much as women in general, therefore they're being left behind.La Realidadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11846700574953867576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-38097829190806095262018-04-25T09:36:26.968-04:002018-04-25T09:36:26.968-04:00@dos piecitos! TKM, gracias!@dos piecitos! TKM, gracias!@Watchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04852292766662558757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-62893516797094781342018-04-25T09:23:50.115-04:002018-04-25T09:23:50.115-04:00On the other hand.. Research shows the biggest rea...On the other hand.. Research shows the biggest reason marriages end is because the man will not compromise with the woman or take her emotional needs into account. Even when a woman repeatedly tells a husband she's unhappy, feels unheard or whatever, the man will often be shocked when she wants to separate. I'm in Australia, just entered my 30's and find men of my age to often be emotionally immature, shallow & disconnected. There's a lot of narcissistic attitudes and a lot of men looking to have their cake & eat it too. As in they expect a woman to pay everything herself & work, but expect to still be the boss & get everything their way. Women who are independent can't be bothered with boys in men's bodies. It seems men have lost their self-respect and don't work on personal development. I want more than anything to find a loving partnership & have many friends the same. I think a lot of women go on Tinder because they've been hurt & used so many times they've given up. Women have sexual desires the same as men.La Realidadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11846700574953867576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-63659288226742793222018-04-24T23:30:48.797-04:002018-04-24T23:30:48.797-04:00Oddly enough, I am an Asian woman, and a Filipino ...Oddly enough, I am an Asian woman, and a Filipino at that.<br /><br />I am offended.<br /><br /><br /><br />Yeah just kidding :D. But I'm still a Filipino woman though.<br /><br />On what Bee E-lightened said, there is truth to the gold-digger part. But from how I see it, the gold-digger part is mostly brought by the poverty in Asia. And naturally, in order to fulfill their materialistic needs, these ladies seek out those who are wealthier. I think this happens every place in the world regardless of where a person lives in.<br /><br />It's just that, from these ladies point-of-view, white men=money, sadly. And there are really a whole bunch of factors in play, relating to poverty leading up to the cause to of all of these: the corrupt elites and the PTW.<br /><br />I think it's really important to send love to these people, and not just the women, but the men as well. Like Lynn said, the men are also vulnerable here. Some of them seek these kind of women, not knowing they're just in it for the money, because they're also in a desperate need for attention.<br /><br />Anyway, thanks for the reading again Lynn. It's a bunch of eye-openers for me, as a young person myself.Mellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08441048814942843912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-52830128776996475612018-04-24T21:35:26.517-04:002018-04-24T21:35:26.517-04:00Why are you always off topic? Theres a page for p...Why are you always off topic? Theres a page for posting questions‼️Truth & lighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00626268867173556981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-72356169897427720702018-04-24T21:30:13.526-04:002018-04-24T21:30:13.526-04:00That is such a fallacy. Asian women are the bigge...That is such a fallacy. Asian women are the biggest golddiggers and demand the most. I see it in the hospital I workTruth & lighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00626268867173556981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-11150990837374729742018-04-24T21:26:56.980-04:002018-04-24T21:26:56.980-04:00Its the pussification of men. Women becoming more...Its the pussification of men. Women becoming more masculine and men more feminineTruth & lighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00626268867173556981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-76205506471317769512018-04-24T18:39:40.340-04:002018-04-24T18:39:40.340-04:00Anh Tang, you are so right. I wish parents would ...Anh Tang, you are so right. I wish parents would eliminate, or at least limit TV and social media time to an hour a day or so each day. Both are being used to brainwash children. Oh, and keep them out of public school. That's just an indoctrination and de-socialization system.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02822998244057053834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-246809764926248612018-04-24T12:30:05.945-04:002018-04-24T12:30:05.945-04:00the problem is that parents don't raise their ...the problem is that parents don't raise their kids anymore. they let tv and social media do it. that is the real problem. i am not sure why people have kids when they don't want to spend time and actual raise and instill their own morals. quit being so damn lazy. don't give me that bullshit of having to work too many jobs and not having enough time to spend with you kids. even 30 mins a week talking to your kid is better than nothing.nonamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06869711329742241366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-34792653808783224542018-04-24T12:28:18.104-04:002018-04-24T12:28:18.104-04:00Darryl, the way those young women reacted to you i...Darryl, the way those young women reacted to you is a result of their own programming. As time goes on they may realize that line of thinking really isn't for them. It's all part of the growing up process. :) Serenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17111154506371903226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-38417523514984276662018-04-24T12:09:46.352-04:002018-04-24T12:09:46.352-04:00Thanks Lynn. I'd consider myself to be a '...Thanks Lynn. I'd consider myself to be a 'former nice guy' but with society pushing equality to the point of conflict and women straight up admitting they use guys for free food and drinks with zero empathy, I've kind of withdrawn from the battlefield. Not sure how to put the genie back in the bottle...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-69466876330219579862018-04-24T09:42:03.535-04:002018-04-24T09:42:03.535-04:00Thank You Lynn, very intriguing insights! My quest...Thank You Lynn, very intriguing insights! My question would be: Do you get that a black man may win the next presidential elections in Brazil which will be held in 7 months! It could be the light in the end of the tunnel for this corruption shaken country! Thanks!@Watchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04852292766662558757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-56451525633056021562018-04-24T09:39:58.312-04:002018-04-24T09:39:58.312-04:00Oh, it's worse, much worse than that. Some men...Oh, it's worse, much worse than that. Some men have figured out that the "skittles" strategy works much better in the current environment. Don't know what I'm talking about? Here's a few links.<br /><br />https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2013/11/15/why-men-are-withdrawing-from-courtship/<br />https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/<br /><br />I'm not quite sure how we put back together a functioning society. And frankly I care less and less about it because it seems too few other people seem to care either.<br /><br />Guess I'll go get a bag of skittles...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-71550718485100158052018-04-24T06:21:11.490-04:002018-04-24T06:21:11.490-04:00This reading really did make me sad for the men (a...This reading really did make me sad for the men (and young boys growing into men, who are being programmed into this behavior). I also feel sad for women, but they are keeping the agenda going (with the PTW instigation). We all need to be mindful, and just try to keep perspective. Lynn White, Focus Sessionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01426009557676118790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-77715248888184027972018-04-24T01:24:11.430-04:002018-04-24T01:24:11.430-04:00Same thing is happening to women at least in Europ...Same thing is happening to women at least in Europe. We have capable single men with education who cant find women to marry. They are all over Tinder just looking for sex with the most handsome men they can find.<br /><br /><br /><br />The Great Teddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11755498801078053113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-77542912062395590312018-04-23T23:33:27.302-04:002018-04-23T23:33:27.302-04:00Lynn is correct. Who can blame the men for being a...Lynn is correct. Who can blame the men for being a little gun-shy when it comes to chivalry? They're damned if they do and damned if they don't because women can't make up their minds if they want the man to open the door for them or not. Traditional roles are being upturned and the PTW are instigating most of this (I believe) in order to tear at the fabric of society and weaken it to the point we can't fight back. Exacerbating the situation is the erosion of our sense of common courtesy and respect for others in general. The men I talk to are afraid of doing or saying the wrong thing around women because they watch TV and see other men being punished in the court of public opinion. <br /><br />Today I was listening on the radio to a debate that's raging in our school system about sexual orientation and gender identity (SOGI) being taught in the schools. I think this will only add to the confusion around relationship roles in general and there is the risk of indoctrination of ideas. Honestly, I'm not sure what kind of impact this will have on future generations. I like to think that we'll have less discrimination but my sneaking suspicion is that this program is being used to push a hidden agenda.Denise Christensenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18419703532325559209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-4631246919050793722018-04-23T22:57:39.508-04:002018-04-23T22:57:39.508-04:00I must be old, old, old school because I go by the...I must be old, old, old school because I go by the adage 'Why buy the farm if you can milk the cow for free?' I grew up in the time, luckily, when men asked women on dates--not the other way around--and men paid for the date. My daughter has complained that they don't do either any more. <br /><br />I don't blame men for expecting women to pay half for a date. After all, they've had it beaten into their heads (sometimes literally) that women are equal. So blame that trend on the women's rights movement, which includes the right to pull your own weight.<br /><br />As for men not asking women to go out on dates...this is where I blame women as a whole. By accepting the 'let's just hook up' invitations for several decades, men have gotten the impression they don't have to work for "the cookie" (as Steve Harvey would say).<br /><br />Men are so confused, you have to flat out tell them these days that you expect to be asked out on a real date if they want to spend quality time with you. Women are confused too, with all the conflicting messages they are bombarded with in society. I highly suggest young women read Steve Harvey's book as well as the old classic, "The Rules". Men are still men (especially if they don't drink tap water, lol), and women are still women, and these books make the most of natural laws.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02822998244057053834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-23902509377432155702018-04-23T21:37:08.475-04:002018-04-23T21:37:08.475-04:00Great readGreat readSkyfishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05034904013218967006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8265992965404854594.post-77676077500042162072018-04-23T16:44:23.298-04:002018-04-23T16:44:23.298-04:00Spot on Lynn. Men have always taken the lead from ...<br />Spot on Lynn. Men have always taken the lead from women on social norms. It's nothing but mixed signals out there right now. <br /><br />I've observed a recent trend here in California. Young women will refuse to even acknowledge men whatsoever. I simply asked a young woman if I was in the right line and she refused to look or speak to me. I saw a late teen refuse to speak to or acknowledge an event organizer asking her a polite question about the event. She just stared straight ahead and almost ran into him. I've seen two other similar incidents. No sane person would have perceived these interactions as come-ons. No earbuds either. Pure unadulterated hostility. <br /><br />Re: Buddist Lady...I dated a 5ft Filipino woman once for about a year. She was a master a feminine control. I didn't know what hit me. LOL<br />Darrylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18313923346219548934noreply@blogger.com